Showing posts with label Books. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Books. Show all posts

Monday, January 28, 2013

200 Years of Comical Insights on the Human Condition

In honor of the 200th anniversary of the publication of one of my favorite books of all time--not to mention the various film versions, and fan fiction pieces it has inspired--I share today 50 quotes from Pride and Prejudice by the legendary British writer Jane Austen.



Pride and Prejudice Quotes
Top of Form
Bottom of Form
Top of Form
Bottom of Form
Top of Form
Bottom of Form
“A lady's imagination is very rapid; it jumps from admiration to love, from love to matrimony in a moment.”

“I declare after all there is no enjoyment like reading! How much sooner one tires of anything than of a book! -- When I have a house of my own, I shall be miserable if I have not an excellent library.”

“In vain have I struggled. It will not do. My feelings will not be repressed. You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you.”

“It is a truth universally acknowledged that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife.”

“There are few people whom I really love, and still fewer of whom I think well. The more I see of the world, the more am I dissatisfied with it; and every day confirms my belief of the inconsistency of all human characters, and of the little dependence that can be placed on the appearance of merit or sense.”

“Angry people are not always wise.”

“Vanity and pride are different things, though the words are often used synonymously. A person may be proud without being vain. Pride relates more to our opinion of ourselves, vanity to what we would have others think of us.”

“I cannot fix on the hour, or the spot, or the look or the words, which laid the foundation. It is too long ago. I was in the middle before I knew that I had begun.”

“What are men to rocks and mountains?”

“For what do we live, but to make sport for our neighbors, and laugh at them in our turn?”

“I could easily forgive his pride, if he had not mortified mine.”


 “There is a stubbornness about me that never can bear to be frightened at the will of others. My courage always rises at every attempt to intimidate me.”

“I must learn to be content with being happier than I deserve.”

“I have not the pleasure of understanding you.”

“Laugh as much as you choose, but you will not laugh me out of my opinion.”

“From the very beginning— from the first moment, I may almost say— of my acquaintance with you, your manners, impressing me with the fullest belief of your arrogance, your conceit, and your selfish disdain of the feelings of others, were such as to form the groundwork of disapprobation on which succeeding events have built so immovable a dislike; and I had not known you a month before I felt that you were the last man in the world whom I could ever be prevailed on to marry.”

“To be fond of dancing was a certain step towards falling in love”

“We all know him to be a proud, unpleasant sort of man; but this would be nothing if you really liked him.”

“You must learn some of my philosophy. Think only of the past as its remembrance gives you pleasure.”

“I am the happiest creature in the world. Perhaps other people have said so before, but not one with such justice. I am happier even than Jane; she only smiles, I laugh.”


“I have faults enough, but they are not, I hope, of understanding. My temper I dare not vouch for. It is, I believe, too little yielding— certainly too little for the convenience of the world. I cannot forget the follies and vices of other so soon as I ought, nor their offenses against myself. My feelings are not puffed about with every attempt to move them. My temper would perhaps be called resentful. My good opinion once lost, is lost forever.”

“A girl likes to be crossed a little in love now and then.
It is something to think of”

“You are too generous to trifle with me. If your feelings are still what they were last April, tell me so at once. My affections and wishes are unchanged; but one word from you will silence me on this subject forever.”

“An unhappy alternative is before you, Elizabeth. From this day you must be a stranger to one of your parents. Your mother will never see you again if you do not marry Mr. Collins, and I will never see you again if you do.”


“Till this moment I never knew myself.”


“He is a gentleman, and I am a gentleman's daughter. So far we are equal.”

“Mary wished to say something very sensible, but knew not how.”


“I have been a selfish being all my life, in practice, though not in principle. As a child I was taught what was right, but I was not taught to correct my temper. I was given good principles, but left to follow them in pride and conceit. Unfortunately an only son (for many years an only child), I was spoilt by my parents, who, though good themselves (my father, particularly, all that was benevolent and amiable), allowed, encouraged, almost taught me to be selfish and overbearing; to care for none beyond my own family circle; to think meanly of all the rest of the world; to wish at least to think meanly of their sense and worth compared with my own. Such I was, from eight to eight and twenty; and such I might still have been but for you, dearest, loveliest Elizabeth! What do I not owe you! You taught me a lesson, hard indeed at first, but most advantageous. By you, I was properly humbled. I came to you without a doubt of my reception. You showed me how insufficient were all my pretensions to please a woman worthy of being pleased.”

“I am excessively diverted.”

“There is, I believe, in every disposition a tendency to some particular evil, a natural defect, which not even the best education can overcome."
"And your defect is a propensity to hate everybody."
"And yours," he replied with a smile, "is willfully to misunderstand them.”


“It's been many years since I had such an exemplary vegetable.”

“Her heart did whisper that he had done it for her.”

“She is tolerable, but not handsome enough to tempt me, and I am in no humor at present to give consequence to young ladies who are slighted by other men.”

“Oh, Lizzy! Do anything rather than marry without affection.”


“Occupied in observing Mr. Bingley’s attentions to her sister, Elizabeth was far from suspecting that she was herself becoming an object of some interest in the eyes of his friend. Mr. Darcy had at first scarcely allowed her to be pretty: he had looked at her without admiration at the ball; and when they next met, he looked at her only to criticise. But no sooner had he made it clear to himself and his friends that she had hardly a good feature in her face, than he began to find it was rendered uncommonly intelligent by the beautiful expression of her dark eyes. To this discovery succeeded some others equally mortifying. Though he had detected with a critical eye more than one failure of perfect symmetry in her form, he was forced to acknowledge her figure to be light and pleasing; and in spite of his asserting that her manners were not those of the fashionable world, he was caught by their easy playfulness. Of this she was perfectly unaware: to her he was only the man who made himself agreeable nowhere, and who had not thought her handsome enough to dance with.”

“My good opinion once lost is lost forever.”


“I am only resolved to act in that manner, which will, in my own opinion, constitute my happiness, without reference to you, or to any person so wholly unconnected with me.”


“Nobody can tell what I suffer! But it is always so. Those who do not complain are never pitied.”

“They were within twenty yards of each other, and so abrupt was his appearance, that it was impossible to avoid his sight. Their eyes instantly met, and the cheeks of each were overspread with the deepest blush. He absolutely started, and for a moment seemed immoveable from surprise; but shortly recovering himself, advanced towards the party, and spoke to Elizabeth, if not in terms of perfect composure, at least of perfect civility.”

“One cannot be always laughing at a man without now and then stumbling on something witty.”

“Follies and nonsense, whims and inconsistencies do divert me, I own, and I laugh at them whenever I can.”

“From all that I can collect by your manner of talking, you must be two of the silliest girls in the country. I have suspected it some time, but I am now convinced.”

“Do not give way to useless alarm; though it is right to be prepared for the worst, there is no occasion to look on it as certain.”


“Had I been in love, I could not have been more wretchedly blind. But vanity, not love, has been my folly.”

“Could there be finer symptoms? Is not general incivility the very essence of love?”

But people themselves alter so much, that there is something new to be observed in them forever.”


“The distance is nothing when one has a motive.”

“It is happy for you that you possess the talent of flattering with delicacy. May I ask whether these pleasing attentions proceed from the impulse of the moment, or are they the result of previous study?”


“How despicably I have acted!" she cried; "I, who have prided myself on my discernment! I, who have valued myself on my abilities! Who have often disdained the generous candour of my sister, and gratified my vanity in useless or blameable mistrust! How humiliating is this discovery! Yet, how just a humiliation! Had I been in love, I could not have been more wretchedly blind. But vanity, not love, has been my folly. Pleased with the preference of one, and offended by the neglect of the other, on the very beginning of our aquaintance, I have courted prepossession and ignorance, and driven reason away, where either were concerned. Till this moment I never knew myself.”

“I might as well enquire,” replied she, “why with so evident a design of offending and insulting me, you chose to tell me that you liked me against your will, against your reason, and even against your character?”



Man, I love this story.  Jane's read on human emotions and the relationships in a family and between men and women still hold up.  Plus she was devilishly funny.  And I can't think of any higher praise for an author of a classic.

Saturday, November 3, 2012

A Book and Plan, Suggested

Has anyone read the book "The How of Happiness: A Scientific Approach to Getting the Life You Want" by Sonya Lyubormirsky?  A friend recommended it to me after she gave me permission to feel depressed until Thanksgiving.  I'm thinking about hunting it down, just to see what it says.

The other information this insightful friend gave me was a series of "Happiness Strategies".  Dr. Dean Barley from BYU had spoke at their RS activity the night before I saw her and all this information was in the front of her thoughts.  The strategies her suggeted nclude:

1) Gratitude strategies: think of someone to whom you have never expressed full thanks, write it all out, read that to them face to face with eye contact, let them react unhurriedly, write down three things for which you are grateful daily and their causes, discuss blessing with a  partner

2) Cultivating optimism: speak to my self like to would to a friend, be factually correct, look for evidence, seek other possible explanations and contributing factors

3) Avoid over thinking and social comparison (Rumination):self-distraction with positive activities

4) Practicing acts of kindness: combats compassion fatigue

5) Nurturing relationships show interest and encouragement, self-disclosure, express affection and admiration, affirm their successes, loyalty, reciprocate favors

6) Coping strategies: social support, finding meaning by talking and writing, absorb self in activities that change the brain state

7) Forgiveness: (REACH) Recall, Empathy, Altruistic gift of forgiveness, Commit, Hold onto forgiveness

8) Flow: task that is challenging and require skills, concentration, clear goals, immediate feedback, deep effortless involvement, sense of control, sense of self vanished, time stops

9) Savoring: pleasures need to be spread out over time and varied, shared with someone, look forward to it, reminisce

10) Goals: make adequate preparation by setting clear specific goals, go public with them, reduce triggers and increase reminders, track progress, use rewards, build a support system to help

11) Practicing religion and spirituality: do something that improves your relationship with God


12) Take care of your body: appropriate fitness, nutrition, sleep, laughter, and meditation

This sounds like a great plan.  And I think I'll get right on it starting Monday.

Thursday, October 27, 2011

Book Review

I finished the latest book I've read on Sunday.  It was Gerald Lund's The Undaunted.  It is the story of the Mormon pioneers who were called on to move and settle the Four Corners area.  Mr. Lund tells the historical story of the expedition and adds a handful of fictitious characters to move the story along like a novel.  It is easy reading though-- at nearly 800 pages--did take some time.

I am not called on to do major, physically-taxing, or tremendously difficult things in my life.  It is probably a good thing, as I might give up.  But I sure enjoy reading about the extraordinary things people have done.  I enjoyed this genre of historical fiction too as I like the true life story but the novel-like ease of reading is so much easier to digest.

I have previously read his other historical fiction work including The Fire and the Covenant and The Work and The Glory. This novel was just as well researched and notated as those, and certainly opened my eyes to the seemingly never ending pioneering efforts of the 19th century Mormons.

Next on my reading wish list--a collection of Pride and Prejudice inspired Christmas tales (Thanks to Amy L. for the early Christmas gift!!)  I hope it will help get me in the mood for the holidays.

Monday, May 16, 2011

A LibriVox Recording Is Now In The NetFlix Que

I recently began a new audio book on my iPod.  I listen as I walk/jog or while I am stuck at home doing mundane chores in the house.  There are several free audiobook recordings--particularly the Librivox recordings of works in the public domain.  This new novel is one of those. 

I am listening to The Scarlet Pimpernel by Baronness Orczy in 1903 for the theater, and then as a novel in 1905.  It is like the Anti-Les Miserables.  The "reign of terror" but through the eyes of an aristocrat sympathizer.

I remember hearing friends talk about the film version starring Jane Seymour and thought they were crazy.  But I am beginning to enjoy the story so much, I will have to watch.  I'd better request it on NetFlix, since Hollywood Video and Blockbuster have gone the way of the dinosaurs.

But in the meantime, I am quite happy to listen to a few chapters at a time, for free.  Makes me anxious too to see what other undiscovered treasures I can find for my iPod.

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

A Helpful Hint

This is post # 870.  Wow.  I'm, just saying.  Anyhoo....

 Before you set out on your travels over the river and through the woods to Grandmother's house you go...or just over to the cousins' or a friends' place, may I suggest a great alternative to an audiobook or DVD on your car's entertainment system? The iTunes store has many, many, many podcasts.  Some are vastly interesting, and others are not worth your energy to even look them up, but I have a favorite that I'd like to suggest.

"Stuff You Missed in History Class" is a short (from 10 minutes to an hour) brief lesson on one event or one person who affected history, but not necessarily the high points that history teachers are rushed to cover in class.  It is produced by the people that bring you HowStuffWorks.com.  You are guided through these rascally historical points by the delightful Katie and Sarah (at the least the podcasts I have listened to) who are intelligent and charming young women who bring their love of books and their knowledge and curiosity to the topics at hand.

As I type I am on episode #46 of the 186 I have left on my iPod.  It is titled "How Eleanor of Aquitaine Worked".  I love to listen to these random and obscure pieces of history as I go about my regualr tasks, and even while I am exercising.  I feel so much smarter after I have spent a little time with my homegirls, Sarah and Katie.

Perhaps it is because I graduated with my bachelor's degree in history, with an intent to teach high school, but I an enthralled with this little radio show, of sorts.  The ladies do their own research and hunt through the most interesting resources on their topics.  For example, I am still amazed that the girls quote from books written by people who have spent their whole careers focused on and writing about Catherine de Medici, for example.  I think that is a little crazy.  Crazy, but interesting that I can glean the tantalizing bits from their work, and then move on to another topic in 17 minutes.

The best part about these intelligence-increasing podcasts is that they are FREE!!  You know I love a bargain, and for the time it takes me to subscribe to the podcast and load them onto my iPod, it is the best some of the best spent time deal I have had.

The time goes by in the car, or doing mindless chores, and I learn something as I go.  Pretty clever use of the technology I must say.

If you aren't as interested in the historical side of things, look around the iTunes store for other free podcasts.  There are a ton of them.  I high recommend them.  There are even some university podcasts that include read classics of literature...Jane Austen's works, among them. 

Monday, September 20, 2010

Book Review


I just finished reading this little book this weekend.  Mr. Huntsman has been the head of a huge petrochemical company for many years.  He wasn't given that job by some rich uncle, or a dandy of a father.  He worked his way there and did it with integrity.

This is a little book; one easily read in a weekend.  The writing is conversational and motivational.  It is refreshing that something uplifting can also be considered a "business" book.

As I read it, I saw application for the suggestions given in my PTA work.  Obviously, PTA isn't out to make millions of dollars, but we follow a "corporate" structure, and the insights Mr. Huntsman gives for working with people, with integrity, with charity are useful in any situation,not just business.

I wish I could afford to purchase this little book for each one of the PTA presidents I work with this year.  It would be well worth their time to read it, as they each deal with situations and people that can be better as we apply these simple principles.  But at almost $20 a pop, it is a little out of my budget.  Still, it is worth the weekend time to read through it. 

It made me happier knowing there were some business people out there who are looking at more than just the bottom line.

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Reduce, Reuse, Recycle

In the process of pulling down, and knowing that eventually I will have to put back, all the books in my house, I was thinking that I have several things in my piles that I should unload, and make available for another person or family to enjoy.

My dilemma with this, is it OK to send books with any sort of written inscription--even maybe ones 15 or more years old--that meant a great deal at the time, but since the person who gifted me the book is now no longer a part of my life--is it kosher to unload those books somewhere? Do you know what I mean?

I have kept these things all these year because I was guilty for the lack of return, or even lasting attachment that the sentiment once truly expressed. Now, I almost avoid the books because of these inscriptions, yet, I can't seem to pitch the books.

Any thoughts, you friends with minds immeasurably wiser than mine?

I'd like to keep the shelf space for books I really truly love and can't live without. So I find the real estate in the shelves is quite valuable. But is there some unwritten rule on this?

Thursday, August 12, 2010

My Two Book Deal



Today the FedEx man brought me the second volume of my blog book. I have a two book deal! Of course, as it is self-published no one but myself is paying for the publication of my book. Dangit. But, it is my journal in a sense, so no need to publish it for the world to read either, I suppose.

But it still very cool to see my stuff I have written on paper with a binding and a cover and a dust jacket even! No matter how fun the blog is, it just feels more real when it is a hardback, paper copy, in my hand, flip the pages, kind of book. Good times.

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Private Morality vs. Public Virtue

I'm not a very fast reader, as I never really give myself time to just sit and read. Too much guilt for doing that. But I am always reading something.

Currently I am finishing up Seven Miracles that Saved America. This morning I caught a paragraph that really struck me. I wanted to share it.

"In 1978, Clare Boothe Luce, one of America's most perceptive thinkers, writers, and leaders of the twentieth century, made this observation:

"'The question is a crucial one for the future of our country. All history bears witness to the fact that there cannot be public virtue without private morality. There cannot be good government except in a good society. And there cannot be a good society unless the majority of individuals in it are at least trying to be good people. This is especially true in a democracy, where leaders and representatives are chosen for the people, by the people. The character of a democratic government will never be better than the character of the people that it governs. A nation that is traveling the low road is a nation that is self-destructing. It is doom, sooner or later, to collapse from within, or to be destroyed from without. And not all its wealth, science and technology will be able to save it.'"

I think this is what my worries for our country boil down to: Are there enough people privately exhibiting morality--honesty, integrity, courage--to support a public virtue?

If not, then I agree with Ms. Luce's assessment. Lately it seems like a lot of attention on outlandish behavior from our national and local political leaders. Yet, in the system we have currently, how many "good people" want to throw their own hats in the ring when they will be crucified in the press, ruthlessly interrogated by the media, and hounded when their verbalized intentions didn't quite come out like they meant to say them? I certainly understand the deterring elements.

Statesmen are no longer running for office. Politicians are. And politicians seem to be more interested in their side "winning" than in doing the people's business. It is depressing.

This book have given me many points to ponder. The seven miracles related in it are just some evidences to me that our country was destined to be great. And I know it was the ready hand of Providence that guided America to what we know today. But so much of the goodness of America demands the greatness of her people. And I am not always sure that we are making the cut.

Monday, May 10, 2010

70 Years Ago



At the moment, I am reading Anne Frank Remembered. It is the memoir written by Miep Gies, one of the handful of non-Jews who cared for and protected the Frank family and the others that hid in the annex where Anne wrote her diary. It is a heart-rending, but uplifting remembrance of a woman who loved her friends and literally risked her life to keep them safe.

I don't recall reading much about World War II, especially prior to Pearl Harbor, that wasn't written with an American point of view. Reading Miep's book, I can only imagine just how terrifying living in Europe was at the time. She watched the rise of Hitler's Nazi Germany and the invasions of Austria, Poland, and eventually her adopted home of Holland.

Seventy years ago today, The German army invaded Holland. It is 70 years past, and yet the lessons haven't been learned. It is 70 years ago, and the scars have not healed. It's been 70 years and there are still open wounds.

The idea that time can heal the hurts, doesn't fit this story. Reading her testimony of what she experienced makes me want to believe that the human race is better than I had once thought. And that in a pinch, we'd want to help each other--like Miep and her husband did--particularly in the face of tyranny and oppression like that faced by the European Jews in the 1940s.

We can hope that in 70 more years her voice and courage will still be as strong an example as they are today. What an amazing woman of courage and strength.

Monday, October 26, 2009

Now I'm Curious

This weekend I read Dan Brown's new bestseller "The Lost Symbol". A friend loaned it to me several weeks ago and I finally had time to sit and just read. It made for a lazy, but enjoyable weekend.

Like his previous novel "The DaVinci Code", this one was a bit of a thriller slash history text slash who-done-it. It sucked me right in.

The hook in this story was the anchient secrets held by the Masonic society. That made me curious, as my family had some masons in it--and apparently little was spoken of about it.

The really curious thing, however, wasn't so much the secretive Masonic side of things, but the similarities to what Masons believe and what I understand of the Gospel. There are several things that at the surface level agree--many do not, but I was intrigued by the handful of coincidental similarities. Set all this in the backdrop of Washington DC and I am into it.

If anyone else reads this, let me know. I'd like to chat about it with you. Like all of you have oodles of time on your hands and can just sit around being otherwise lazy to read the latest bestseller. Am I right?

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Book Club

I have been part of a book club since the fall after The Girl was born. My darling neighbor began our ward book club while she was serving as Education counselor in our Relief Society. I was the RS secretary at the time and felt I should go to support her efforts, plus it gave me hope that with a newborn at home I wouldn't let me brain turn to mush.

Since that beginning, we have seen Etta widowed, gone on a mission, returned to marry a sweet man across town, move to his place, include her new ward in book club, serve several "on assignment" auditing missions, and eventually our little neighborhood book club has become a community group.

It has been harder for me to be excited about book club for the last few years. I still go at the beginning when we choose books. I volunteer to host the October meeting--so I won't forget it is coming. I am fine with leading a discussion of a book I enjoyed. But I don't attend each month. I pick the book selections I really want to read and go to those.

This month Etta, a former English teacher and extremely well read for her own enjoyment, will lead our discussion on Victor Hugo's classic, Les Miserables. She chose a translation and abridgement that she used when she taught her students this novel in school. I feel in love with the Broadway musical while in college--I've seen it live three times--and had made an attempt to read the unabridged version. I failed at the unabridged novel, but wanted to try reading it again.

I still love the story: Jean Valjean's repentance and redemption. I think it is as powerful as any parable in the scriptures. I feel his choices as he reaches each decision. I understand his confusion as the Bishop gives him the candlesticks and sends him out to be a better man, a man of God. And I am anxious to get Etta's take on it as she gets into her teacher-groove with us.

But I think I am done with Book Club after that.

I enjoy reading for fun, but the other ladies that have since joined have gotten a little too cerebral for me to find the fun in reading with them. It isn't that I only read mindless books. I don't think I do. But I do prefer books I find light and happy. I like reading different authors, but they all don't have to be life crushing stories of deprivation and pain to learn a good moral from them. Some of these ladies analyze even fun stories to the brink of death.

Have you read The Princess Bride? You know, the funny story from which the hilarious movie was made? The book is better than the film--they always are--but after reading it for book club, one member commandeered the discussion and came away with the theme that "Life is pain, princess" as the actual life lesson from that book. It was the most bizarre take on an otherwise delightful story. Things have gone downhill from there for me.

I want to read for fun. I don't allow myself a lot of time to read each day--there are too many other things that need to be done--so when I do read, it ought to be for my enjoyment. Not to prove my mental tenacity to women about whom I don't care what they think of me.

So I think I am done. Just as soon as my visit to Jean Valjean and the Paris barricades is over.

Friday, August 22, 2008

New BFF, for sure!

Yesterday I picked up a new book I have wanted to read since a lovely PTA friend suggested it to me, then I heard the author speak at the PTA convention this past May. She was so funny. I immediately felt that she could be my new lunchtime friend if only I could meet her casually. She is, of course, Shannon Hale and the book is Austenland. She has also written The Goose Girl and Princess Academy, among others.

In Austenland, her heroine (Jane) carries a terrible secret: Her obsession with Colin Firth as Mr. Darcy in the BBC version of Pride and Prejudice is adversely affecting her real life relationships! Then, she is bequeathed a three week vacation to Pembrook Park, an exclusive resort for rich ladies to live out their Jane Austen themed fantasies, to try to leave the unrealistic expectations once and for all.

I read the little novel all yesterday--in about 6 hours. It sucked me right in, right from the moment I read the dedication page: "For Colin Firth--You're a really great guy, but I'm married, so I think we should just be friends." Can you see why I love this lady?

Friday, July 18, 2008

Never Judge a Book....

I happened on an article in a magazine that asks "famous" people for the 5 most influential books they have ever read. Obviously, some celebretants (Paris Hilton, Lindsey Lohan, etc., etc.)would have to be excused from this exercise, as they haven't read anything save their own press clippings in years.

This particular article was a list from Ben Affleck. His list is a bit heavy on foreign policy type reads, but the article in general made me think. Which books have really and deeply affected me?

I'm just going to exclude all Scriptural texts from the list, albeit they are the most influential books in my life. Just assume that the Bible and the Book of Mormon have had the most impact in my personal life than anything else, but if read in the correct spirit that would be the outcome for anyone else too. So let's keep this list secular in nature, shall we? My list, by the way, is in no particular order or ranking.

In eighth grade homeroom, my teacher, Mrs. Alarcon, read aloud to our class To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee. I don't recall ever feeling so much as I did during that reading. What a powerful story. What a promise of justice and fairness. What an example of a well-read, well-respected, honorable father. I loved the relationship of Atticus and Scout. I still do.

A little later in my life I read the J.K. Rowling Harry Potter series and fell in love with the fantasy. It came along at the right time for me to renew a love of literature--even fantasy. I love that this woman has written a complete and total universe that I otherwise couldn't have visited. Plus, don't you wish you could just wave a wand and say "Scurgio" and the house would be clean? Sure! Who wouldn't?

Gap Creek by Robert Morgan was one of my favorite books from our RS book club. I know that the draw of this book was the strength of the heroine and the struggles she faces. The other draw was that this story was written by a man. Not to be sexist, but he really "got" this woman character. While I have never scalded a hog and made lard from its fat or birthed a baby on my kitchen floor without help, but I suspect this guy hasn't either. That is good storytelling.

During high school and college, I think I read almost all of his published works, but my first Shakespeare read was The Merchant of Venice, even before Romeo and Juliet. What drew me into his writing was the universality of themes. Vengeance? Mercy? Forgiveness? Who hasn't felt some of that? Plus, what a cool dad that names his daughter, Portia--yeah, well. But people are people, still.

And I can't leave this list without including Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen. I read this as part of the required reading in freshman English at BYU. It was a mental block at first. then I began to see Lizzy Bennett as one of my friends, she would have been if she were a real person, you know. This book was so funny and witty and clever and man, did Jane just nail relationships?! This was years before I saw the 1995 A & E version with Colin Firth, I might add. Now I am a Jane Austen addict--and I am reading or listening or watching her characters and her words nearly all the time. And like Shakespeare, she is dealing with topics still relevant today and to me. Plus, I love British stuff in general. You can't get much more British than Jane Austen and Shakespeare.

What I love about reading is the escape and the examination you can achieve when reading a really good story. I can identify issues in characters and then see them reflected in my life. I can also explore solutions theoretically before I try in real life. Plus, when I am reading something worth my time, I get the feeling that my brain is not turning to mush, as I had previously feared.

Any reader favorites I should also have considered? Five books is a very short list, I know, but it is a good exercise to pare down the list to what I REALLY love. Feel free to drop a comment with your favorites. Let's compare. Plus I just finished Pope Joan yesterday, and need a few new suggestions. I'm headed to the library later today.